another day, another fight.
yesterday i thought things were alright between us but another fight happened during dinner.
i really was on the verge of throwing my hands in the air and going AARGH!
i really could not understand what was UP with him.
a friend of mine is also going through problems with her guy.. so it's kinda apt that we both contact each other often talking and trying to explain stuff.
here's the deal.
we discovered that guys are just...absolutely HORRIBLE at multi-tasking.
ask em to shift gears, depress clutch, steer and manouvre WHILE peeing im sure they could do.
but when it comes to handling a girl, plus issues in their lives such as money or other crisis...
nope they suck at it.
often i see how when a guy goes through a rough patch, and feels helpless...
they exercise control over the only thing that they can. the girl.
and usually the sacrificial lamb is the relationship.
so girls beware when yr man is faced with a crisis.
the first one to get the axe might be you.
in my case, it's him trying to deal with me having to leave again come january 3rd.
to me, i feel this month i had in singapore, is more than i could ask for
and am absolutely thankful for every moment here with him.
the initial plan was not to come back at all for summer.
so whatever i had here, im taking with me to sustain my next 7 months.
but apparently, as he explained yesterday night..
he's made up his mind about something important,
and he was checking to see if i was on the same page as him, and apparently i was not showing the right amount of reciprocity.
add to the fact im leaving, he was looking for something concrete to hold on to
and it seemed i was not giving it.
sooo...
what do i do.
when i feel im giving my all.
and apparently it's not enough.
i go for a session at the hair salon, that's what.
haha...
i've got blonder hair!
hehehe...
yesterday i thought things were alright between us but another fight happened during dinner.
i really was on the verge of throwing my hands in the air and going AARGH!
i really could not understand what was UP with him.
a friend of mine is also going through problems with her guy.. so it's kinda apt that we both contact each other often talking and trying to explain stuff.
here's the deal.
we discovered that guys are just...absolutely HORRIBLE at multi-tasking.
ask em to shift gears, depress clutch, steer and manouvre WHILE peeing im sure they could do.
but when it comes to handling a girl, plus issues in their lives such as money or other crisis...
nope they suck at it.
often i see how when a guy goes through a rough patch, and feels helpless...
they exercise control over the only thing that they can. the girl.
and usually the sacrificial lamb is the relationship.
so girls beware when yr man is faced with a crisis.
the first one to get the axe might be you.
in my case, it's him trying to deal with me having to leave again come january 3rd.
to me, i feel this month i had in singapore, is more than i could ask for
and am absolutely thankful for every moment here with him.
the initial plan was not to come back at all for summer.
so whatever i had here, im taking with me to sustain my next 7 months.
but apparently, as he explained yesterday night..
he's made up his mind about something important,
and he was checking to see if i was on the same page as him, and apparently i was not showing the right amount of reciprocity.
add to the fact im leaving, he was looking for something concrete to hold on to
and it seemed i was not giving it.
sooo...
what do i do.
when i feel im giving my all.
and apparently it's not enough.
i go for a session at the hair salon, that's what.
haha...
i've got blonder hair!
hehehe...
6 comments:
i posted a comment earlier but blogger went screwy... dec coming to an end!:( i ll see you in sydney! hope ubin was fun... camping eh... but i think more like.... HAHAHA shall not say here..
it was CAMPING!! but ended up kinda sucky cause of the rain. we brought home alot of kerang!
it was raining meh?! well it wasnt on mainland.... hahaha. arent u interested to know WHAT i wanted to sayyyy instead of camping?! mua ha ha ha. KERANG? hope they dont taste like crap.. like the ones we ate at lau pa sat... we actually finished them. Didnt get any gonggong? OR siputs? You didnt mess up the ecosystem did you? WTH am I writing a damn long comment here... OMG your flight is damn SOON la! DONT GOOOOOOOOOOO PLEAASSSSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. lol.
no they weren't the cockles we ate that tasted like shit..its the longish ones that usually is cooked in sambal. kerang right? it was so fresh and YUMMY lah! no we didnt mess up the ecosystem, unless you count peeing under the trees hehe...
ALO! isnt yr flight soon TOO!?! and ill be seeing u back home in sydney ANYWAYS. eh wen is yr aunt or cousins or both coming down?
GREEN longish ones ISSIT?! KUPANG LAH! kerang is cockles. what do u mean you ll see me ANYWAYS... huhhuhhuhHUH. i dont need to answer your last question you know already mua ha ha ha. your ubin trip damn EXCITING la... imagine if any of you kena patuk.. ish... gd job on ur adventure... a rare side of dewi...
what u mean rare! i AM adventurous okaaay! hehe... well since it was a python, it wouldn't bother patuking we would have been strangled and crushed and eaten whole. though it would be an amazing feat for a snake to stretch its mouth to fit meee! hahah...
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